A free ride

We live in a capitalist society. This means that businesses are born, businesses die based on the market. Successful businesses are able to foresee hurdles and barriers in the marketplace and navigate around them in order to survive in ever-changing times. Those businesses that are unable to do that die or are bought up. It's a kind of Darwinian model.

So I have a little angst around the Big 3 car companies asking the government for help. These car companies did not successfully foresee the hurdles and barriers in the marketplace - or they did, but failed to change their course to navigate them. Now they are hurting in a big way and expect that the government will bail them out. I'm sorry, but that's not how our economy is supposed to work.

Three years ago, I was lamenting to my father (a big supporter of American cars, who will never, EVER buy a foreign car) how the American car companies didn't have any hybrid cars. That honor belonged to Toyota and Honda at the time. Even as the Prius sold out and was back-ordered, the Big 3 continued on their same track - building the big trucks and SUVs because they were still hot sellers at the time. If the car companies did a better job of making smaller, more gas efficient cars a priority, perhaps they could have by-passed some of this mess.

Now, I know that there could be huge repercussions if these car manufacturers go under. Loss of jobs, loss of health care, implications for the supply chain. But our demand for cars, overall, is unlikely to change. Which means the foreign car companies will get bigger and absorb those workers and give business to the supply chain. In the long-run, we would be a a stronger economy.

But no one wants to hurt in the short-run. Maybe that's our problem, though. Maybe the generations, starting with the Baby Boomers, never sacrificed, never suffered. That could be one reason the Iraq war was such a disaster - in WWII, everyone hurt together. Americans had to ration supplies and volunteered for the war effort. But today, we don't even know a war is going on unless we turn on the TV. We don't have to curb our consumption or volunteer for anything. In short, we're spoiled. Maybe if we stick to our guns now, stick to what our economy is supposed to be it will be very painful for a few years. But we'll suffer through as Americans and in the long-run we'll have better run businesses and maybe more efficient cars.

Of course, that means higher taxes in the short run, as we support the millions of people who will be unemployed and without health care. But if we give the Big 3 the bailout, then we'll just have more of the same. We'll be rewarding businesses that did not successfully navigate the market. That's no way to foster new ideas, business savvy and capitalism.

James Bond, baby

I've never been a huge James Bond fan. I guess I never did fully grasp what the draw was for guys. Yeah, Bond get the women, the cool gadgets, the fun spy job. But after 87 movies, doesn't that get a little old?

That was until Daniel Craig came along. As long as he's James Bond, I'll keep watching. Those eyes. Those muscles. That scruffy-yet-handsome face. Excuse me while I swoon.

So Scott and I went to see the newest 007 installment and we were a little disappointed. Daniel Craig, of course, did not disappoint, and there was a lot of action and fun gadgets. But the last movie came out - what? three years ago? And this movie picks up right where the last one ended, without any back story to remind you what happened. So we were confused for most of the movie. The plot was a bit thin and we felt that there were story lines that were started but never fully developed. Also, this James Bond is a little "colder" than other ones...you don't quite warm up to him like to you do the other Bonds (and he doesn't get the girl in this movie).

The problem will be magnified when this movie makes its run on Spike or TNT. Usually, each Bond movie is its own encapsulated movie. But this one relies on the previous movie to make any sense. So you really can't watch it in a vacuum.

A word to the interested: unless you're looking for eye candy, watch the last James Bond movie before seeing this one. Maybe you'll leave the theatre feeling a little more fulfilled.

Deck the halls with turkeys and pumpkins

I get it. Really, I do. The economy sucks and retailers are hurting. But that doesn't give anyone the right to put out Christmas decorations three weeks before Halloween.

A few weeks ago, I walked into Crabtree Valley Mall, only to find workers hanging fake garland from the ceilings and assembling a ten-foot tall reindeer-shaped garland topiary. And I didn't even mention the Santa-land that is now positioned by the entrance of Southpoint Mall. Before you even think about turkey and stuffing, you can now have Junior's picture taken with Santa.

Adpulp has a good article about retailers' strategy for the holidays. It sounds like consumers are cutting back on shopping (although, as I've mentioned before, I have yet to actually witness this is Raleigh). But maybe this is a good thing. Just like when gas prices skyrocketed and we saw people curtail their driving and opt for gas-sipping vehicles, maybe we'll see people reorder their priorities and become less wasteful and less consumption-driven.

Of course, no one wants anyone to suffer or to go without things that they need. But at the same time, there are lots of things we buy that we don't need and which we buy just for the sake of buying or having. Perhaps tightening our belts a bit will allow us to better understand what really matters and to just consume those things we truly need. Not only is it better for our souls and pocketbooks, but it's also better for our environment.

So let's turn off the holiday music and take down those hideous topiaries. Let's enjoy the season for what it is and maybe, for just one year, take it easy on all that shopping.

A new chapter

Regardless of who won last night, our country was turning a page and starting anew. But with Obama's win, we're also starting a new chapter. I'm excited to see what this new president will bring (God knows I wouldn't want his job right now) and how he will guide us through all our current troubles. And I'm also excited to see how the election of an African-American to the presidency will speed up the elimination (or, at least, the suppression) of racism in our country.

I thought McCain had a very eloquent concession speech and did a great job of bringing closure to the campaign while encouraging his supporters to support the new president:

I urge all Americans who supported me to join me in not just congratulating him, but offering our next president our good will and earnest effort to find ways to come together to find the necessary compromises to bridge our differences and help restore our prosperity, defend our security in a dangerous world, and leave our children and grandchildren a stronger, better country than we inherited...

I wish Godspeed to the man who was my former opponent and will be my president. And I call on all Americans, as I have often in this campaign, to not despair of our present difficulties, but to believe, always, in the promise and greatness of America, because nothing is inevitable here. Americans never quit. We never surrender. We never hide from history. We make history.

And Obama did his fair share, trying to unite the country. Both speeches moved me to tears.

The one reservation I have is that our government-elect is now made up of the majority Democrats. As a moderate, I like to see balance, and I'm nervous that the pendulum is going to swing the other way without temperance or hesitation. This isn't just for four years - this new government will make several Supreme Court Justice decisions, whose rulings will affect us for decades to come. I just hope that Obama and the Congress keep some moderation in their decision-making and remember that while the Democrats have won in the elections, the make-up of the country is much more evenly split.

So here's to a new president, a new chapter in our nation's history. May our leaders be guided by faith and temperance and may the next four years bring success and happiness to America.

The confederacy is dead

If Chris Matthews makes one more comment about the South in reference to the Confederacy and how that affects how southern voters vote, I'm going to scream.

While there are, no doubt, some Southerners who still fly the Confederate flag and secretly wish for succession, I would hazard a guess that the vast majority have bookmarked that part of the South's past to the history books.

Mr. Matthews, let's get a better grip on your southern viewership. Enough with the Confederate references.

I voted!

I hope everything has had a chance today to go out and vote. Fortunately, the there was no line at my polling place; I walked in and walked out.

I'm not particularly a big Carrie Underwood fan (country music isn't quite my thing), but I did love this quote from her in TV Guide. I've ranted about the media doing this before, but I also feel the same way about celebrities. In my opinion, celebrities aren't qualified to tell American voters how to vote and I think it's a little arrogant of them to think that their opinion should matter to the average American. Get over yourselves.

Carrie put it a bit more eloquently:

There is someone I do support, but I don't support publicly. I lose all respect for celebrities when they back a candidate. It's saying that the American public isn't smart enough to make their own decisions.

So today, don't listen to the media. Don't listen to well-paid celebrities. Don't listen to your friends or family. Make up your own mind. Decide for yourself and what you think is best for this country. And vote.

Go Vote!

Tomorrow is the big day. I don't think I've been this excited since 2000, when my college roommate and I tried to stay up all night to watch the election results, only to fall asleep at 2:00 am and wak up the next morning just as confused.

Just about everyone I know has early voted, but I'm waiting until tomorrow. There's something about voting on the actual day that is special and emotional. Yes, I'll probably have a long line, but isn't that part of the experience? Isn't it about sharing that energy with other voters, all waiting to exercise their moral obligation to vote? After all, not everyone in this world has that freedom, and I think it's special to be among our countrymen who are fortunate enough to have been born into a nation that values that freedom.

Plus, it'll be fun to get a free cup of coffee.

Happy Halloween!

We survived the hosting of our first Halloween party and had a blast! The party was a costume party, but I really didn't expect many people to dress up. But almost everyone came to the party in a costume! I think, secretly, people love a good excuse to dress up. Plus, being silly and fun helps to keep us young!

The best costume awards of the night went to Jen and Rich for their rendition of the Geico caveman and the Gecko. Hilarious! Runners up went to Alison and James for McCain and Palin. Apparently, Alison had been practicing her accent all week, and it showed. She really did look at Sarah, too! Of course, their visit wasn't complete without the McCain/Palin sign they stuck in our front yard...Scott promptly removed it and it's now sitting in our garbage can. Sorry, Sarah!



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